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Last night I caught a few minutes of The Brian McKnight Show on 98.7KISSFM and he asked listeners to call in regarding their thoughts on why woman are attracted to rich men? He wanted to know if women were attracted to their success, money or lifestyle and so I thought I would answer this question for all of the ladies holding down a real 9-5 job because they love it and can basically support themselves and not have to be gold diggers to make it in this world.

First, women are not attracted to men with money only. Money is filthy and has a stench, isn’t valuable until you spend it and when you do, you want more  to spend and are never satisfied, but overall I wouldn’t bathe in money or sleep in a bed full of money, so it is obvious women are not attracted to money, but respect its value necessary to acquire the things they love.

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 If a man isn’t born rich, he has to work for it and if that work inteferes with a woman spending quality time with her soulmate than no amount of money can equate to real love. Eventually, a rich girl sitting at home awaiting for her rich man to return home for weeks is going to cheat and find the poor plumber, Con Edison and UPS worker just as attractive.

Secondly, a woman is attracted to a man’s ability to provide for himself and hold down a secure relationship because normally, when there are money problems there goes the relationship, but if a relationship is secure, you can both be broke as hell and will stay together as long as a man has a desire to work and take care of business. So it’s not enough to just have money, but a consistent means of self-support that says that a women won’t have to work 1o jobs in the event a man can’t make hold down a job.  A wealthy man helps a woman feel less stressed and able to enjoy one’s relationship, but he can have a moderate salary and the ladies will still be satisfied as long as the love and care is right.

Thirdly, men with money have toys and that includes fast cars, a state of the art home theater, plenty of clothes and a lot of cash to travel which makes for a great relationship is always a bonus. In other words, the wealth is one thing, but spending quality time with one’s wealthy soulmate is even better. So men shouldn’t look at women like gold diggers. If they can attract you, then they can attract any wealthy man and she’s going to go to the one who brings her the most joy.  Having wealth can  afford that expensive gettaway trip she wants to take with you to some exotic island and the men shouldn’t look at it as if they are being selfish. There is an inner goddess in everyone that just wants to be pampered like one. Is that a woman’s crime?

Now some men will settle for any man who’s just filthy rich, but those are your gold diggers who don’t care about themselves and/or having joy, but just the money and wealth. And so Brian McKnight’s question would best serve 9-5 working women because if geared toward gold diggers, than that’s your answer.  Working women just want someone who can match her own wealth and so she can feel like a woman and not like a babysitter of a man’s dreams.

If a man doesn’t have wealth than he better be good for something more than a roll in the haystack because there are mouths to be fed, bills to be paid and real responsibilities no woman has time to second guess if a relationship is going to make it. These are different times we live in. Ideal relationships begin in college or highschool and last a lifetime with new found wealth because either the man or woman is there during that journey to success from the start or not.  And if  not…you have to understand that a woman is going to go after what matches her success in life or not pursue a relationship with you at all.

Don’t take it personal and never feel like you are being rejected because you may not have your career where you want it to be.  Trust if your career was stable that woman would pursue  you. Your wealth may be the only way to impress her because she’s got pride and not going to settle for less.  Her mother taught her that. Today’s woman also, doesn’t mind being alone. In fact, it is more peaceful and allows her more time to work. If I had to choose work over man’s riches and gifts, I would choose work because  I know I can depend on myself. In other words, even being rich ain’t enough for today’s woman. She might even go after a better lover than a rich lover whose passion can equate with her work.

Now that is something to think about fellows.  Sorry if you are confused and dont’t know what the hell to do to attract the woman of your dreams. Women can be complicated creatures, but in all seriousness, with a voice like Brian McKnight  today’s man wouldn’t have to be rich or a good lover, just sing for me, shut up when I’m working and go occupy one’s  time when I don’t want to be bothered.  Now that’s some real Disilgold Talk for you.

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